When we learn how to identify red flags in a relationship, divorce will reduce drastically. Imagine, a guy is always beating you up while courting and you were managing it. He gets angry regularly and uncontrollably; breaks plates, bottles and you say I will change him when we get married.
Are you the Holy Spirit? Better face front and borrow yourself brain. At least for the sake of the unborn kids. You owe them a responsible father not a hooligan.
If love is blind the marriage will open your eyes. Shine ya eyes! 🙄😎